f-a-m-i-l-y. this is how you spell "family". spelling the word family is easy but know the meaning of family, its difficult.

went to 大姑's hse on friday to settle some family problems. whole 大姑's family is bullying my sis. went there to clarify everything. they take my sis as a cheap woman, a two headed snake and whatever bad things you can think of, they treat my sis as that. is it just because she is not close with us? the us refers dad, mum, my 2 bros and me anyway. just because you guys think that she is not close with us, then you guys treat her as though she got no family ? bullshit i can tell you. dad and mum always regard her as daughter. bros and i always regard her as our own sis. on friday, zac, mum, dad and i went to 大姑's hse. louis dint tag along cause he is under probation and the time is ard 8pm plus alr. dad went to fetch 小姑 followed by sis. then, we headed to 大姑's hse. we had lots and lots of arguement there. i think, even ppl from downstairs can hear our voices. we shouted at each other. no, i mean, we all shouted at 大姑 and cousin. 大姑 is obviously siding her own daughter who is my cousin lah. even when cousin admit she is at wrong, 大姑 still insist that she isnt at wrong! all of us were so angry that almost a fight is going to break out. and after many talking, dad said "走走走。我们不要跟他们联络了" all of us was about to leave and sis pointed at cousin and said "我信错人了." and then, 大姑 pointed at 小姑 and started to scold her which no one knows why. and then, everything started! 小姑 got angry and beat 大姑. of course, cousin went to protect her own mum. actually, dad is alr angry with cousin cause she set a trap to let sis fall in and of course, sis really fall in. dad went to slap cousin. and a fight started just like this. when i was about to lift up my hand, cousin and 大姑 went inside the room and hide. cause 小姑 is a good fighter among girls. i was so flare up with those things they did to us and the things they say bout us, their own relatives! 小姑 was damn angry too. cause cousin insulted her and 大姑 scolded her for no reason. everything was put to an end until 大伯 apologise on behalf on them and we were injured in this fight. then, we left their hse. and i can say, dad slapped cousin so hard that we can hear the "piak" sound.

before we went up their hse at first, 小姑 had alr told me that if their is any fight among the girls, i must help. and she will signal me when to fight. dad and mum agree to it too. and dad told zac that if there is any fight among the guys, he must help and dad will signal to zac too. in the end, the girls fighted instead of the guys. a cousin of mine who is 大姑's son, saw that we beat his mum and his sis yet he dint put a stop to that. he is so hum and scared of my dad that he dont even dare to step out of his room when we were all in the living room. so kuku lah.

can you imagine your own relative to suck up another relative just because of money ?! and because of a sum of money, then they will visit a sick relative ?! arent they money faces ? and come on, that sick relative of mine is your own sister. and because of this sum of money then you visit your own sister who is my aunt ? and you trying to provoke your own sick sis who is my aunt. knowing that she is sick and cant be provoked anymore yet you still bad mouth this and that in front of her! do you know, she is crying when she is telling everything to my mum and 小姑. what an aunt and cousin i have. eh no, i dont think i will regard you as my aunt and another you as my cousin anymore.

moreover, dad had alr warned us that there isnt any need for us to greet them if we see them on the streets or what. we dont have any relative as them anymore, not at all ! and warned zac not to greet cousin if he sees him in the school. thanks god i'm not studying in the school anymore. if not i got to see that cousin's face almost everyday. now, i got to strike out their name out of my relatives' list. there is no more 大姑 and 大伯 name in my list. their children and grandchildren who is my cousin and nephews wont be in my list too. dad had told them that we had sever ties with them too.

family. family may end up in this situation too. i thought only friends will end up quarrelling and fighting then sever ties. now i know family will ended up like this too. can you imagine, your aunts, couisn and you yourself fighting with each other and everything had put a stop because of this fight injuring too many ppl ?

i hope sis is alright after confronting them. sis is the main victim afterall despite her not involved in the fight. despite her not having any physical injury. well, the one that hurts the most in her is her heart. despite trusting that cousin so much yet, that cousin is doing so much stuffs behind her. and aunt is injured during that fight. her lips is bleeding after the fight.

is everything solved after a fight when there is injuries here and there ? will everything put to an end ? is there no longer be any problems in the future anymore ? there is so many qns flashing in my mind. i hope everything will be fine. but still, we are no longer relatives.

afterall, spelling the word family is easy but knowing the real meaning behind it is difficult, really difficult. f-a-m-i-l-y. by spelling it doesnt mean anything. but by knowing the meaning, it means smth. now i know, not all relatives can be trusted and being close with that relative doesnt mean we must trust that person.

goodbye people. this post will be smth that happen on friday and really bothers me for nights. okay, will post another post regarding bout what happen ytd (21/03).